Yeah, this actually is one of teh factors. you know, I’ve never lied to my mom. Or atleast, I never got caught 
But, while we were going to their place, I thought shez gonna like her too. There was hardly a single percent chance of NO from our side :S
I was talking to my mom and I told her that sometimes I think that even if I get married to the girl of her choice and then obviously get affiliated with her, won’t she still feel the same ? told her that I thought that she might be harsh with the girl of her own choice and she said…
yes…but that would happen after atleast 3 months 
I so desperately want a peaceful home. I’m the only son and I’ve always tried to be there for my parents, always! They’ve never had any complaints. I never asked for anything.
I think its the clash of expectations, I was expecting too much from my mom and mom was expecting too much from me :S