Party on in Tehran

I really can’t decide what to say about this article, is Iranian society hypocritical or has the average Iranian just decided to accept things for the way they are?

BBC

On a recent trip home to Tehran I was invited to a birthday party. When I arrived I found the 70 or so guests wearing fancy dress and dancing to the latest Western pop music.

The party goers were all young and from well-to-do families. One was dressed as Tarzan, another as a pilot from the film “Top Gun”.

Assorted “ayatollahs” and “mullahs” were whirling drunkenly under the strobe lights. A girl in a black chador, flung it off to reveal a skin-tight Cat Woman costume underneath.

In the middle of the fray, a waiter with a bow tie was trying to manoeuvre through the crowd, balancing a tray filled with glasses of wine, gin, vodka and whisky.

The partygoers seemed not just to be defying the authorities, but actively poking fun at them.

Drugs and alcohol

Iran is a young country. Sixty per cent of the population are under 35. Most can barely remember the revolution, yet alone what life was like under the Shah.

Alcohol is smuggled into Iran and available on the black market
They’ve grown up in a country full of oppressive laws governing every aspect of life. But as I saw at the fancy dress party, they’ve become experts at finding ways to subvert and push back the rules.

Under Islamic law, it’s forbidden for people of the opposite sex to be seen together either in public or at parties, unless they are related.

In the early days after the revolution this was strictly enforced by the revolutionary guards. But not anymore. Boys and girls now openly walk hand in hand through the streets.

Dress codes are also no longer rigorously enforced. Young girls have exchanged their shapeless black chadors, for short, tight coats with jeans and platform shoes.

Despite the ban on alcohol, homemade wine, smuggled beer and spirits are now widely available.

So are drugs. Not just heroin smuggled in from neighbouring Afghanistan, but designer drugs like ecstasy and cocaine.

If you have money in Tehran these days, it seems that anything is possible.

‘Lose Yourself’

Six years ago, when President Khatami swept to power in a landslide victory, it was thanks largely to the support of the nation’s youth.

Black chadors have been swapped for tightly-fitting coats
But their hopes for reform have been dashed and there’s now a widespread feeling of disillusionment. Young Iranians no longer believe in politics.

In fact you sometimes get the feeling they no longer believe in anything except having fun and trying not to think about tomorrow.

The Tehran fancy dress party was taking place against a background of one of the worst political crises in Iran in the past 20 years.

The hardliners had just banned hundreds of reformist MPs from taking part in the forthcoming parliamentary election. I asked one party-goer what he thought about it all.

“Actually I’m more interested in trying to remember the words to Eminem’s latest song,” he said, and launched into an impromptu version of “Lose Yourself”.

At that moment there was a knock on the door. It was the Revolutionary Guards, wanting to know why there were so many cars in the street.

I was terrified, but needn’t have worried. One of the party guests, dressed as a mullah, told them it was a religious gathering and slipped them some money to leave us alone.

They did, but as the party continued I wondered what it said about the state of the revolution. Who was the more cynical - the Islamic vigilantes who took the money, or the fancy dress cleric who offered it?

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This isn't really shocking. I mean we all know what really goes on in these kind of 'gatherings' in any so-called Islamic State.

Nothing to be surprised about or be angry about...Under an Islamic government only your actions in public are subject to censure and such...Basically you can do whatever the heck you want in your own house or with yourself as long as you do not advertise it or do it in public or in a way that invites corruption of others...

This is to enforce that the trash is sifted from the pure and no intermingling of filth happens...It is said one rotten apple spoils the basket and in this way, all the rotten apples are confined in their own muck...

The laws of the Islamic society are to govern the social aspect of existence, not the private...As long you keep your dirt to yourself, you are fine...

for the first time in a very long while, Lajawab, I agree with you.

^ yeh he does make sense once in a while :)

Gee ravage, how sad…And all this time I thought I had your approval for everything I ever posted…:bummer:

shucks.

i'll trrrrrrry to be more obviously juxtaposed next time :)

happens in every major islamic cities (even mecca). no surprise.

No surprise. happens in all big Islamic cities. Examples include Lahore, karachi & Islamabad frequently. Allah raham kare.

proves we're all human and have 'weaknesses'.... only some are just two faced about it..

I cant help but compare this situation to what I've seen here in america. When you forbid alcohol, inter-mingling of the sexes etc, it seems to have such an ill effect. In pak, at every party I went to, the men drank till they fell down. Over here, you have a beer or two (or maybe even three) and then move on. When something is this fobidden, it is (or seems to be) sought after. At parties in america, inter-mingling is common so its not a thing that would affect men in a greatly different manner. Over there, it would be WOW, lets get it ON. Same with drinking. Moderation in anything is the key and making something forbidden is the way to dash any hope of moderation. Sorry if I offend anyone here, but this is what I've seen first hand time and time again.

^ I understand your point...but where do you draw the line? Legalising prostitution? Or Drugs?

My personal objection is with the culture of hypocricy ..and worse how it promotes corruption in society.

Not surprising AT ALL.

We all know what is right and what is wrong. The Quran says the man has free will. He has given both the choices and their consequenses it is up to him. Pick one and face the consequenses. It is not what you do but why you do.

Whats’ so shocking?? It happens everywhere!
People should’nt forget, that not all iranians are muslims, many are bahais, parsis and other religious groups.
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Not surprising AT ALL.
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True...

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This isn't really shocking. I mean we all know what really goes on in these kind of 'gatherings' in any so-called Islamic State.
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exactly RESHTIA DA. hapns every where...evn the most Islamic state wuld hav such things......

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well i'm surprised !! ( just to make a difference from the above replies )
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haha :D---