Toh itna naraz honay key kia baat hay. Ghalti lag gai, post k selected hissay perh k jawab likaha tha main nay. Only a village idiot will do that what you wrote about bringing a man in all women party. :p
hum naraz? naheen, bas jazbati.
PS: dont make fun of villagers, we have a number of them around
PS2: point was to illustrate that hospitality does not negate courtesy or encourage idiocy
If I have guests at my house I always excuse that I have guests and I am not coming but if its fine with hosts then I'll go.If someone ask me that they are bringing guests at my house it will be helpful and no surprises.In big parties one or two extra guests doesn't matter but if I have specific people coming to my party and they bring their friends without asking me then I'll be little uncomfortable as I have to worry where to seat them and about food but I will not say anything to them and invite them in.Its always better to ask a host before going in the party.
This reminds of an incindent our group of friends were having potluck on Eid and an uninvited family of 7 came to the house and were all worried about food, so the least what we did was some of closest friends didn't eat and wait if the food is enough then they'll eat.But that was not good everyone's mood was upset and worried about everything though they didn't say anything.
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^ Wow...showing up uninvited to a small gathering like that...yikes! I feel for the hosts.
If I have guests at my house I always excuse that I have guests and I am not coming but if its fine with hosts then I'll go.If someone ask me that they are bringing guests at my house it will be helpful and no surprises.In big parties one or two extra guests doesn't matter but if I have specific people coming to my party and they bring their friends without asking me then I'll be little uncomfortable as I have to worry where to seat them and about food but I will not say anything to them and invite them in.Its always better to ask a host before going in the party. This reminds of an incindent our group of friends were having potluck on Eid and an uninvited family of 7 came to the house and were all worried about food, so the least what we did was some of closest friends didn't eat and wait if the food is enough then they'll eat.But that was not good everyone's mood was upset and worried about everything though they didn't say anything.
Thats like real hosts and real friends, hats off to you ad ur friends
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I am reminded of a particular incident that happened to one of my friend. We had a common friend who invited me to his house warming. This friend of mine asked me to inform our common friends. I asked this common friend to come along with me. In the function the friend told in a very loud voice so that everybody could hear "Inspite of not being invited you had the graciousness to come" to the amusement of every other person in the function. My friend who had tagged along with me that day has not forgiven me to this day..
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Ahh this reminds me of my brothers mehndi. A last minute decision was made to have a mehndi at our house before we went to pakistand for his wedding, MA with the house being big enough we managed to invite about 60 people who were close friends and family. Me and my mum made all the food, and thankfully we cooked for about 100 people, thinking while we were in pakistan by dad could freeze whatever was left over and eat it when he wanted...word must have got round about the mehndi, and people who my mum hadnt invited (they assumed she had forgotten to phone them) started turning up....what started of to be an amzing night was just stressful and chaotic because there were so many people! eventually i had to get all the guys to leave and go to my aunties so we had another spare room, and most of the family didnt even get to eat anything. we eneded up having to order pizza after everyone left cause we were sooo hungry. it wouldnt have been to bad if just the aunties turned up, but they had brought their kids with them too.
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If* I was in that party and knew this is going on, i will leave right away and never see the hosts and those stupid guests again....TOTAL BOYCOTT*
What totally classless behaviour on part of the host.