i have a problem…n i need some help from u guys…
well basically i recently made friends with a neighbour of mine been abt 4 months neways i always had helped this female friend cos she seemed to come over to my house alot as she had problems at home with her husband.
me being a good person at heart used to always give her support when she needed it but this time round she really let me down
im married i have 2 young children of my own n the current situation has really baffled me as she lives in same neighbourhood…this time i need to know if i did the right thing. the situation is as follows…
she sent me a text saying she needed some money which at the time i did not have she said she would pay me bck but i explained that myhusband had taken the bank card n this time he had to go to hospital to see my v ill nephew who has meningitis.therefore i had no cash at home.
a few minutes laters she replied with an abusive text message n said how an unloyal friend i was but seriously guppies i was geniuine. neways she swore n said our friendship is over??well 2 be honest i was amazed at her demand i mean just for once i dint do what she wanted n she insulted me like that.did i do wrong i dnt want anything to do with her anymore as she showed her true colours.
plz tell me if i did right i really need to know?my husband says i have but its nt sinking in …
i will be most grateful n it would help me get outta this depressive situation
Oh you need to run for your life. People like this are controlling, manipulative and feed on people like you. Just be thankful you got this sign, and from now on just ignore her!!
Let me tell you what shes going to do now, even if you do ignore her, she will come back to you, maybe even apologise and be all sweet and stuff, but you need to block her out of your life. Tell her your husband doesnt approve and that you cant see her anymore.
just have some rules in your life- How to deal with people... so that it doesnt feel them bad but you can judge them before any further friendship stuff :)
hey guys guess wht..cat woman u were so right abt her apology look what she texted me....
*said"sori naz 4 stresin u out, i knw u had ur problemz 2 wori abt, u knw wht am like..jst get pised off over lil thnkz hpe ur nephew gts well soon
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il tell u wht i said seeing as ur so gud to me...**i told u not to text me and i meant it ,how dare u say that abt my nephew i dnt care abt u anymore,u r not a friend but an enemy in disguise,stay outta my way and dnt text me nemore i mean it.
was that firm n cold i hope so cos i already sent the message
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lol to i am in love...u guys sure know how to make sum1 cum outta a depressin situation thnku alll n cat woman i promise to stand my ground if for nething for my nephew n childrens sake ab mein saadi nahi rahun ghi#
well it was but shes has come bk with some v rude replies ive threatened to report her if she carries on but i dnt think she cares?idnt need he kinda crap i have 2 babies to thnk abt its really getin me down now..the texts are so rude im nt able to write em here shall i report her??
