When is it okay, if ever to stand against something (which will ultimately lead to blackmailing, hum budhey hai etc) you know they have done wrong while they are in denial for the most part
how far can that stand go
I know I'm being very vague, sorry
Hmm. I know what you mean.
I personally think its OK to disagree with them and explain your POV. Also to make your own decision which may be a head on with theirs. However one thing to remember in everything is staying polite. Same goes with the choice of words.
Sometimes its hard to control our volume or pitch. But parents deserve that we take extra care.
It’s not so much about volume/pitch.. more of, not taking crap for something when the other is in the wrong 
I don’t know how else to explain. and because it involved parents, does that make you a bad person?
Keeping our tone in check, we can speak our heart out infront of everyone, be it parents or anyone else..
hmm.. ok.. so it’s all tone
Don’t exactly understand the question. But yes, Parents sacrifice alot for their kids & kids can’t ever give it back.
lol at the ‘tones’…as if its going to reduce the ‘pain’ and ‘grief’ that parents will feel when you say something against their wishes…tone shone se khaas farak nahi parta…you saying “dear mom dad, i love you so much, but you are wrong here, here and there, and my life is miserable due to your stubbornness - so i hope you don’t mind”…and they are supposed to be ok with it?? Nope…not gonna happen like that…