ever since i had my own kids i have started to appreciate and love my parents much more then before..
i have realized how hard and emotional it can be to raise kids, what we are doing for our kids is nothing compared to what our parents have done for us especially years ago
when they didn’t have half the help or advantages we have now.
i just wanted to open a thread for all parents out there that have done an amazing job raising their kids even through difficult times and for the new generation parents that are
also working hard on raising their kids with good manners and attitudes
this may seem silly, i just felt like posting this.
I know right ? I always use to tell my mom not to worry over things she had no control over but ever since I've had my son I worry about everything...and she just smiles the I told you smile :)
lolz i think i m the only mum in this world who always point 2 her mum k ap ne tu asani se baray kr dya bachay pura khandan tha ap k pass mei akeli mar gai hun :( i sometimes feel so bad i never appreciate my mum for raising us though me n my brother r famous in family for good behaviour good education n getting married at right age n every1 gives credit 2 my mum n i m always oppositing it :(
I have started respecting my MIL.. lol. Before I was like whatever, she is just too strict and controlling but now all of her strictness has actually worked in my favor. I have starting appreciating her more after having my son. I realize that it wasn't all that easy for her to raise 4 kids.
lolz i think i m the only mum in this world who always point 2 her mum k ap ne tu asani se baray kr dya bachay pura khandan tha ap k pass mei akeli mar gai hun :( i sometimes feel so bad i never appreciate my mum for raising us though me n my brother r famous in family for good behaviour good education n getting married at right age n every1 gives credit 2 my mum n i m always oppositing it :(
Its hard when you have too many people around you, interfering in your decisions. I think its a little bit easier when you are alone and have all the authority to make your own decisions. Yes there is a helping out factor with joint families but there is also a major disadvantage also. I mean errr imagine your in-laws living with you and interfering with your parenting.
my mum was lucky in this matter they never interfere regarding our issues but there was always a helping hand :) atleast u can leave ur baby n go 2 washroom sometime i have 2 wait for huby when he comes from office thn i m gng 2 washroom :(
anything anyone wants to add?