y? r u planning 2 leave u r country nd settle in gujrat/lahore? if i were u id never do that. but thats just me...
No Soni 27, Im' not goin to settle there for the moment but even if I want to settle there, I'll settle in Lahore, bring my In laws with me in my new house. Anyway, for the moment I'm still in Paris or apne husband ko idher bhulane ki koshish kr rehi hun!
Re: Parents VS In Laws.
I guess the difference is that you can be vocal with your parents/siblings, whereas, with in-laws if you are vocal or express your views, you are labeled as battameez or whatever. So, when you keep stuff inside and don't let it out, it tends to build up inside you and gradually spoils your relationship with in-laws...
Your parents/siblings won't hold a grudge against you forever if you had a fight or was rude to them, but in-laws will!
I don't think anyone goes into marriage with negative thinking..events/experiences after marriage change or shape your mentality.
just a thought, i may be wrong!