Re: Parents VS In Laws.
my mum has given me the same advice...in one ear out the other, don't talk wen u dont need to, ignore ignore ignore, patience, b strong blah blah blah... its scaring the hell out of me... im going to be living with my in laws & as the shadi date gets closer im getting more worried as i can see myself struggling...i hv a big gob in the sense that wen something isnt right i say it (in a nice way ofcourse) but mum sed im not allowed to do that either!
im very considerate of other peoples feelings..so i hope my in laws are the same.. back to the topic... i think that our culture has always given the impression that the MIL is evil & that there is friction between in laws & the DIL (i blame star plus dramas).. so we expect it & as girls try their best to fit in to the new environment they are very sensitive to criticism, however big or small it may be.
(sorry mirch!)