Yesterday someone asked me this question, and it surprised me how can someone say things like that? If you have to choose between children who are teenagers not adults what would you choose parents or children? Meaning whom will be kicked out of house?
Can people not TAME some teenage animals they are raising? Can people not talk to their parents to be respectful instead of kicking them out.
There are situations that you can plan/prepare ahead for and then there are situations that are better dealt "as it happen". This is one of those situations. Lot of unknown parameters in your post/their question