thats old school thinking-- and its still surprising how people culd give up such good rishteyy just cuz they want them to marry in their own blood- i think u shuld fight for it- and mayb they wuld give up-- make them reason-- achey rishteyy har waqt nahi aatey-- u cant always find good people to keep u happy-- and if ur 100% sure hes the one and he will b there for u from beginning to end then i think u shuld go for it-- btw-- will they force u to marry ur cousin or sumthing?? like will u b forced to do sumthing like that?? if so then i think talk to ur mom or dad who ever ur really close to -- make them reason with u-- that u wont b able to live happy with anyone else but him and hes gonna keep u happy and u have all the guarantee and all the good stuff- and just keep praying and allah(swt) always does everything for the good- Good luck :)