Parents' choice

kaun · April 10, 2009, 2:56pm

nahhh i was just kidding, thats what i tell my mom, however in all seriousness shaadi wohee achee to parents kee khushi sey ho cuz i have seen a lotta ppl my friends and relatives who took the bold step and did it without parents consent and initially everything seemed awesome and things got bad, not for all ofcourse but majority.

But by parents khushi i still do not agree with accepting whoever our parents throw our way.

NJMasti · April 10, 2009, 4:57pm

nothing really!:)

but for sure you will be in a "safer" zone, cause let's say if YOU chose your partner and things got worse, THEN parents WILL ALWAYS blame YOU for not listening to them :( so it's better that parents regret THEIR mistake instead of blaming you for yours.

it's complicated - not sure if you understood what i'm saying :)

waterfall99 · April 10, 2009, 4:59pm

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But i don’t think that things would get any better if one’s parents start regretting later

NJMasti · April 10, 2009, 5:02pm

That’s a whole different issue.

You see, if parents regret later, then they will allow you to have your own choice in EVERY decision you make.

waterfall99 · April 10, 2009, 5:07pm

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Once it gets too late, then what will be the use of having the freedom to have your own choice

NJMasti · April 10, 2009, 10:58pm

true!

life sucks does’nt it! … and then you die =(

dildirani · April 10, 2009, 11:10pm

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Waterfall

Is everything ok? You seem disheartened and worried about something?

amir_pindi · April 11, 2009, 12:33pm

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why do parent always have to INTERFERE with everything

NJMasti · April 11, 2009, 1:55pm

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...because they CREATED you. They can DESTROY you too. :)

lol

hitchki · April 12, 2009, 1:41pm

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If I was nice enough to carry something in my womb for 9 months. So that it would leach off food that I eat, make my nights and misery and then condemned myself to a lifetime of uncontrollable emotional damage (take the highs and the lows) - then that ungrateful creature would owe me my life, my youth and my body. So basically their soul.

If they disagree, they are more than welcome to biologically regress and not be born. when they manage such a feat then I would forfeit all rights over their life. Until such a miracle, they don’t have a choice.

Im gonna make a great mum