Re: Parents approving you marrying a non-Desi?
Why is it a trouble zone? You could teach each other, learn from each other. I prefer the harder route over the easier any day :)
You have to have a lot of patience. A lot of EXTRA love and caring....especially if the person also converts. Im sorry, I cant look up to a man whom I have to learn/teach very basic things..... Im always doing things for my family and friends. In future marriage, Id like to be a bit of receiving end. My thing is, Im too darn responsible and it adds to tasks....if I should put it gently.
Its a girly thing. I wish to get pampered by my future hubby. Its better to "appear" weak than the knowing all or strong pathani image...it got me no where, just a lot of "gham". In my field, I meet a lot of goray men.....but I prefer not to even consider it. Some of my friends tells me, its my loss. That goray mard are more caring etc. less complicated. I just want to keep things simple, uncomplicated at all levels. Duno if I make sense, sweets. Its go home time for me now... ;-)