Re: PArenting....TIPS!
Rule 3: Go out with them once a week..
to different countries...and places..especially,when they are young..and let them enjoy every moment of their life with u:)..and juste njoy the time with them instead of stressing out.....
** it will help strengthen the family bond..increases love :)
** Rule 4:NO ZABARDASTI!Give an individual his /her rights...**
if they wanna do sumthing and if its sumthign u think k its not good for dem..yr job is to tell them k it will hurt them..agay unki merzii..
coz they r not animals..they r mature enuff to think..and see whats right n whats wrong..they r not babies
and na hi they r my ghulaam (slaves)..her shaks acha bura achi tarah se janta hai..kabhii kabhi jazbat main akar they end up making mistakes..aisi soorat main just help by giving an advice..and if theys till dont listen leave them ..Its then between them n Allah:)
apka farz pura howa..and ho sakhta hai woh sahi hoon..and if they end up being right..u wont regret k zyada force nahi kiya..and if not....if they end up hurt..wagaira...they will learn sumthing..they will still gain something. :)..
WIN /WIN situation..
so leave dem..
and waisay bhi Allah and une k darmiyaan hai mamla den..
zabardasti si not good..infactw oh aur bhi kerain gaye aisa ...