Re: PArenting....TIPS!
here's a scenerios.
dere were 2 brothers...
His brotehr was talking over de fone with a female colleague or a friend..
ab we dotn knw his neeyat ONLY ALLAH knws....we dotn know k if its for school ..or if they r just firends ..or if they r just sharing general knowledge stuff ..ya jo bhii.
coz we chat online so its de same too..( quite understandable..)
khair.
His younger brother, he started creating a scene at home he goes like "MOM, see agar meray dost k ghar main uska bhai kisi larki se fone pe baat kerta ...TU USKAY DAD uss ko jaan se maar deytay.....app bardasht kyn ker rahi hain ..kuch kahain iskay.saath."
Life main aur bhi tensions hotii hain...bechaary larkay ko itni sunni pardii apni amii se ...shayad larkii jo fone pe thi usnay bhi suni. uski Ami ne moft main aisay hi tension li..
khair.
then kuch saalon baad uska chota bhaii KHud larkiyoun se baat ekrta hai..infact they are all friends.. aur ab yehis awaal jab ussay keroo tu he goes like TAb main bacha tha..baat ekrney main koi kharaaabi nahii...bday pe invite kiya hai...we all r friends r going ..etc..:)
POINT of THE STORY???
kisi ki zindagi main aag laganay k bajayee khamosh rehna chahyee..coz its between Taht PERSON AND ALLAH!..
and NEEYATON KA HAAL WOH jantay hain.
pehley hi life main stress deney ko buhut probs hain ..yeh duhaan, pollution , stress, Money, ....Society.....