Thanks everyone...
heera -- they do have time with the baby. But you have to understand to stand over me when I bathe my son and every two minutes say wash it this way and that way. They can happily take thier place as grandparents and let me be parents. Obviously when there is soemething I need help with I'll run ot my mother.
LOL...let her bathe your son. This way she will be happy and you will get free time. Still you would get enough time. for you and son.
Yeah I know that is frustating but you know when you can't help it let her do it. Or make her busy in doing something else for your baby at that time. or always keep her in you son's thing.
Let her do everything for your son and you have a break or free time.
My sister use to let her do everything for her son. My bhabhi let her do everything for her all the kids so they got a lot of free time.
1 thing is for sure they do it out of love and they can't understand that it frustrate you. My bhabhi and sister was happy when she use to do things for their kids.
Get yourself a free time by letting her do things. Involve her in your kids work when you bathe your son like let her do in his or your room.
Keep her involved in his work.