Parent problems

[redvelvet]

@GuardianAngel

Intro:-
My mother is quite an insensitive woman while my dad’s the opposite. Lately, they have been arguing which is nothing new. They argue about a lot of stupid things, which involves my mother draining money from my dad’s share and wasting it on stuff for the house like paint and new tiles, though the house looks fine. My mother is fussy on everything and neatness is always number 1 on my dad’s list. My mother swears much more then my dad which pisses him off because its being directed towards him now and always had been whenever she was frustrated at him for the STUPIDEST things.

Now, my dad is REALLY pissed off at my mom ever since yesterday. Its a long story, but my dad said he finally had it, and wanted to divorce the ******** because he could not tolerate the ****** anymore. He’s so sick of it now, he is angry and let loose of rant yesterday noon. I was with him and not my mom and he was really angry, saying he wants a divorce.

Today, he still is angry with my mom and says he’ll be finding a place, move out, cut off all our internet connections, phone lines, etc just so our ‘good’ mother can support us and not him. He said he had it, and he said that even my mother’s family side doesn’t show this much disrespect for their husbands. My mother was cursing and praying to God for misery to happen to my father which set him off. My mother is being the immature one here, and causing all the stress. Now I really think my father will be moving out for sure just because he finds her ungrateful, vile and even a pig.

I wish they can just stop and I hate hearing them fight. It makes me nervous. This isn’t new but there’s a 50 percent chance that there CAN be a divorce, which is going to break the family completely apart.

I wish my parents weren’t like this. It really hurts hearing them fight; it depresses us. There’s nothing I can do instead of just praying to God. W**hat kind of woman is my mother anyway? Cursing my dad, and making duas for him to be miserable all his life? I wish my dad could just ignore her but his patience exceeded.
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I just don’t know what to do. I’m thinking about what will happen if the family was ripped apart.

It’s anger…can bring out the worst in even the best of us. It seems that you connect better with your dad. If it’s easier to reason with him then maybe you and your siblings can try talking to him…calm him down…and think about what can be done. Who among your siblings gets along better with mom? Maybe that person can talk to mom. Hope things get better soon.