Paranoid or Unnecessary Suspicious?

[diwana]

@Hulahoop_Queen

^no..**spouses are not like parent-kid relations **but that is the way to build trust - communication. You have to ‘communicate’ to your spouse about your whereabouts if you think she is the doubting type. Once in a while, have a conversation with her that she needs to trust you often in a gentle way. Eventually, she will stop doubting. Ranting is not gona help you know..all I am suggesting is a solution. I hear this ‘doubting’ story all the time from married people and I am often just confused..what in the world is so hard about telling your spouse where you are even if it’s few times a day. I mean, we use our phone a million times a day for business/work related stuff - how come its hard to take a few mins off to call your spouse?..literally takes seconds…and 1 second with a text msg.

You know some things are a lot more simple than we actually think. Instead of questioning WHY your spouse is doubting you and taking it upon your ego, make some effort to get rid of the problem from its roots. It will be worth it in the end.

Great post except some cliches or minor misconceptions you may have.

We agree now that spouses are not like parent and children relationship.

You mentioned about communication. Good.

What if the spouse is completely oblivious of other partner being suspicious for no reason?