Re: Pakistanis falling in love
I don't think its lust.
Sometimes people fall in love, not with the person, but with this imagined image they slap onto the person.
Like you fantasize about marrying some chivalric guy, right, and then you meet someone, and they could be far from that. But you just psychologically convince yourself they actually have the traits that you're looking for. Not because they have them, but because you want them to have those traits.
My two cents. I'm biased - I have done that all the time with guys. And its the same deal - being absolutely "in love" with a person you've barely met enough to really know.
Its not lust. Its an overactive imagination.