Yesterday I got in a fight with dads and 2 of his friends
now I dont mind the fighting but i do mind the reason of it.
Almost all the pakis I kno, talk with the wrong kinda words according to me, so this time I told em to watch their lingo and that they should be ashamed .
Their lingo usage was like this:
Mr1: Kya haal hay Mr.2
Mr.2: Theek thaak aap sunnao janaab.
Mr1 :Allhamdullilah, yaar koy baat karni thi aapse
Mr2 and Mr3: Bollo bollo
Mr.1 I went to the bla bla bla “maderch*** our tab painch***
Mr.2 Acha? Us Maderch*** ko kehne tha ke who bla bla
Mr3. Jihaan bulkul us ktte ke bachee ko kedhne tha jke who bla bla
Mr1. Theek hay us Painch** main batta doon ka ke who bla bla bla jab who mere ghar khana khane ayga
And this went on for like 45 minutes. Usually I don’t like to talk at all, and I stay away from people, but this time I couldn’t go and just had 2 say something.
This was enough for my dad to explode, and so did his friends hehehehehehe
We had an argument for like 2/3 hours and 2day my dad s still pissed ( wich I do not mind much )
But even thou I am younger and stuff, I still feel I have the rite to say the things that are on my mind. But the q is y do they use that kindo lingo I mean such disq words? Their only defence was that I was younger and should shut up.
And its education I kno, lekin even the some peeps @ uni use this lingo.
I use also bad words but not these kinda words.
In my family its a big no-no to use such words to describe things/situations/people. Therefore I never heard it around the house.
Some of my friends use that lingo and its interesting because they know I dont use it, and so they try their best not to use it infront of me. When they do say such a word, they take it upon themselves to apologize to me (though I do not ask for any apology), as if they accidently said it.
They have stated they like using such lingo because it gives depth to their emotions/feelings about the subject matter.
Our family rule is you leave that out of the house..
Once my brother cussed in punjabi and my mo threw a heart attack… and he laughed and said.. your not a certified paki (in school) if you dont cuss. bara naam roshan karay gay humara.
You know its funny, because like when I was in Jersey and had all these desi guy friends, talking to them all the time my lingo got so bad that everyother word from my mouth was either PC or MC....This one time I said that too unconsciously infront of my mom and THAAAARAAP ek masalay daar thaapar kissed my left cheek. Us din kay baad I try not to use those words.
But still sometimes when I am really really really mad....Dil ki bharas nahi nikalti jabtak I don't cuss in URDU....The F word doesn't even work...anger management PC and all those Cz are really good for venting out. LOL!
Those words are a BIG no no at our place!!!
That’s probbably the reason that I absolutely detest those words and thank god ppl around me never use it either
big no no at my place too. i once said ‘bharwa’ (translate: bas***d) infront of my folkz and everyone’s faces went red. i have never heard my mum or dad cuss (not infront of the kids atleast).
sadly the school i went to for 12 years in khi gave me some really good friends that were experts in this field. and made one too by the time i reached class 6. by class 10 we used to sit down after school and make up new words which would be officially released in the school and next day everyone would be using them.
some pro-swear girls complained that all swear words include a reference to women, so we made some that referred to men (let your imagination run wild!). one of my friends still has the 15 page sweartionary we compiled.
but thats all gone now, im not in touch with my high school friends and being here for four years (and meeting some inspirational people) my urdu is swear free as ever
dp my friend, just let them be yaara. theyre probably too old to change their habits now.
ewww i know! In my house my dad uses the language only if he's really pissed off. My mom hates it, my dad's family can have such bad language. What's really annoying is ppl that don't know anything else. I was sitting in Accting class one day behind 3 international students, and all i could hear was bc that and bc this. I wanted to scream, dont u know any other words?!!
Mr1: Kya haal hay Mr.2
Mr.2: Theek thaak aap sunnao janaab.
Mr1 :Allhamdullilah, yaar koy baat karni thi aapse
Mr2 and Mr3: Bollo bollo
Mr.1 I went to the bla bla bla “maderch*** our tab painch***
Mr.2 Acha? Us Maderch*** ko kehne tha ke who bla bla
Mr3. Jihaan bulkul us k*tte ke bachee ko kedhne tha jke who bla bla
Mr1. Theek hay us Painch*** main batta doon ka ke who bla bla bla jab who mere ghar khana khane ayga
And this went on for like 45 minutes.(
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.. kia fasahat aur balaghat he zaban men :D
Swearing like these is so common in young adults in Pakistan and in male adults too.. its become a part of our culture.. though these words are less used in front of family of ladies.. interestingly some persons are so used to these searings that they are offended if these are not used and is seen as a sign of not a warm welcome or greeting!
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bara naam roshan karay gay humara.
