Pakistani pop star reborn by loss

i don’t listen to many of his songs, but i just read the headline on BBC and thought it was a wonderful thing he’s doing. If any of you hate him, or he has done something bad in his life (who among us hasn’t), then please don’t kill me for posting this up. i don’t know much about his songs to be quite honest, but i think how he is using his success and fame, is really something inspiring.

Pakistani pop star reborn by loss, Chiade O’Shea BBC, 30 October 2003

Seven years ago, Pakistani pop sensation Abrar ul-Haq was spending the spoils of his new found fame on fast cars and a rock star lifestyle.
He was about to buy himself a private jet when a personal tragedy gave him a new perspective on life.

“I could have bought the jet. I was very serious about it. Then I lost my mother in 1996… and life suddenly changed,” Abrar told BBC News Online.

So the singer of the best-selling album Bilo Day Ghar, who is also popular in the United States and Europe, decided to put his stardom to good use.

“If people follow you, it’s a great opportunity given by God and you should use it before the fame dies,” he said.

Abrar decided to concentrate his efforts on a problem that kills thousands of women needlessly every year. ***“Every 20 minutes in Pakistan, we lose a young mother because of delivery and obstetric problems,” said Abrar. “It’s like a jumbo jet full of women crashes every week and we don’t even know about it.” ***

He set up the Sahara for Life Trust to oversee the building of a hospital, complete with a mother and baby unit, in Pakistan’s isolated Narowal district, 80 kilometres (50 miles) from Lahore.

This June, after seven years of work, Sahara for Life opened the hospital - the Sughra & Shafi Medical Complex.

It offers out-patient check-ups for pregnant women and new babies, family planning advice and medication.

The 120-bed in-patient complex is due to open in January, after a final fundraising push currently underway.

Before the hospital was opened, local women simply went without medical help during childbirth.

“Because of the remoteness of the area, it’s two-and-a-half hours drive from Lahore, people were dying on the road on the way,” said Abrar.

With only 19% of births in Pakistan assisted by a doctor, nurse or midwife, the lack of medical care in rural areas costs many mothers their lives.

Most who die in labour or during pregnancy suffer from problems such as high blood pressure or excessive bleeding that could be treated with minimal medical intervention.

And one-quarter of infant deaths are caused by tetanus - easily prevented by vaccinating the pregnant mother.

If a mother lives within travelling distance of emergency obstetric care, she reduces her chances of dying from post-delivery excessive bleeding - the single biggest killer of mothers in Pakistan - from one in 1,052 to one in 625, according to UN Population Fund research.

By the time a family identifies that a mother’s medical condition is severe enough to need hospital treatment, it is often too late to save her life.

Then there is the question of money - women often die for the lack of a few pounds.

“For these women, their family won’t take them to hospital because the travel, staying in Lahore and buying food costs lots of money for people from a village. So they leave it to God, saying if they survive, they survive. It’s so depressing,” Abrar said.

Sahara for Life decided the medical centre should provide all its services regardless of a patient’s ability to pay.

“For the people who cannot afford medicines and consultation fees, we offer it free, totally, whatever the cost,” said Faheem Ikram Butt, administrator at the Sughra & Shafi Medical Complex.

Perveen Mukhtar, a 50-year-old mother from Bulaki, Narowal district, said: “I came after I heard about the medicine and check-ups that are free after you pay the 10 rupees [16 cents] registration. This hospital provides modern medical facilities for peasants like us in Narowal. This was never possible before.”

Yes what he is doing really is wonderful and I found out about that not too long ago either.

Just one hope that he doesn't end up like Imran Khan who thought he should run the country too and end up losing his cancer hospital too.

Politics are just too dirty in our country.

well good for him :k:

I just find it interesting that he chose to focus his attention on women and obstetrics instead of say..a childrens hospital or cancer or something along those lines…don’t get me wrong…I still think its great..i was just wondering…:slight_smile:

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No, i didn’t get you wrong :flower1: i think you are right to wonder about that, it interested me as well. Maybe it’s because of his experience with his mother, i am not certain, that’s my personal guess.

:flower1: i am glad you liked the article.

It's really good work by Abrar-ul-Haq. Even though I don't understand what he sings in Punjabi language but yeah the dude is cool.

Shehzad Roy is another singer who's helping in educating poor children. The foundation's name goes by Zindagi Trust.

Good thread, Nadia. :)

i was not aware of that. Thank you for letting me know.

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Thank you :flower1:

yea, i found out bout it @ the mela in aug where he was performin...noble deed for sure :)

yea…i have heard of zindagi trust..my parents actually send money to help with the building of one of the schools…the way they work is that they bring in the kids who usually work on the streets n they teach them for four hours..the next day if they know the lesson they get paid so its not like they are losing money by not working..they’re making money for learning instead..they also recently opened a girls high school too…its a great thing :slight_smile:

Nadia-ur prolly rite.. maybe it was his mother…neways I did enjoy the article..thanx for sharing :flower1:

We definitely need more health care for pregnant women during and after pregnancy. There’s a lot of loss life. One of my phupho’s passed away during labor due to some complications. She was giving birth at home and did not have adequate care but the typical “daai”. So it kinda touches at home.

We need more people like him to start on various different health care projects in different parts of the country. :k:

I have always liked his songs. His songs really capture (specailly Punjabi) the essence of the punjabi culture. One of the few Pakistani singers that I will pay(have paid) to see them perform. He is a calss act no doubt.
One other observation, last time he was in Houston, I attended his concert. Most of the youngsters do not care about his work in the health field. While he was trying to convey his message regarding the hospital and donations, some of the guys started booing him and heckling him to sing songs. His response" Yaar, main app kay mulk kay liay kuch kar raha hoon, agar aap ko yeh baat nahi sunneni to please tashrif lay ja ain". Has any of you seen the same?

I can’t say that i have…I attended a couple of concerts n the guys were patient during his messages..not attentive but not hostile either :flower1:

sehar i’m sorry to hear about ur aunt..:flower1:

Though his songs fly right
over our heads, but I've met him and can
thus say that he is a fine person. What
he's doing is definitely a very worthy cause
as long as he avoids the political arena.
There are lots of artists nowadays doing
community service. Talking about
Shehzad Roy, wasn't Jawad Ahmed doing
something along the lines too?

^^ in first luk… i thought uve posted sum poetry or sumthin…

Abrar:k:

Sehar, i am sincerely so sorry to hear that about your Phupo. May her soul rest in peace Insha'Allah.

Kaleem Bhai, Nice to read that about him. Wish more people with his type of fame were using it in this manner.

Abrar…his music :k: as a person :k: :k: