sorry dear but C.O.N.F.U.S.E.D is written all over your post :)
I am never going to go back to Pakiland and marry a guy from there. I am a UK gal and these Pakistanis abuse us British like anything.
- They marry us and come to UK, get a nice job and get settled on our expense. They don't know how to gel with us.
- They think we are so modern and different, yet they are willing to marry us for the passy! They believe that us BBCDs are not on the same wavelength with them after marriage, where were you before marriage? Oh right, thinking how to trap a British Paki to marry you so you can come to the UK.
- After living all my life outside, it is highly difficult for me to adjust in Pakistan.
- Have you seen how CHALAK some of the girls are in Pakistan? They are definitely too clever for me to deal with
- I hate the desi mentality Pakistani ladies and men have. They become suspicious at anything. Oh ladies be sure to close your facebook account if you get trapped in to marrying a Pakki from Pakiland because he might not like seeing guys on your profile!
I used to think, Pakistan is so clean and pure and nothing bad ever happens but the truth is there have been so many murders in Pakistan, so many crimes, the rich control the poor, people going wild, people loosing their sense of dignity and "sharam" in Pakistan and indulging in illicit activities, everything is similar to what happens outside in the world.
The point is every country has it's ups and downs and bad and good points. You cannot go freaking say that us BCDs are confused or modern or not religious because that is not the bloody truth. London has one of the biggest and best mosque around and the population of UK Muslims is high. Some of the muslims here can bring shame easily to the so called Pakki muslims in Pakiland.
It is stupid to say that. I seen what is going on in this forum, the ABCD bashing thread and that is so ****ing unfair. Guys need to open their eyes, especially those that live outside of Pakistan. Pakistan is not what it used to be, it is highly modernised and everything happens and can be found there. Only difference is, people hide it and are good at covering their wrongdoings while people in other countries openly do it.