Re: Pakistani Men 2nd Marriage Kio Nahi Karte?
**1. jab shaadi karna sawab ka kam hai tu kia dosri shaadi se double sawab, aur char shaadi se 4 times sawab hoga?
** If marrying once is a sawab, then does getting married twice double that sawab, and then marrying 4 wives quadruple the sawab?
marrying 4 times (for the reasons prophet mohammed pbuh) did is fine. But marrying 4 times for your own physical pleasure i think its not permitted. ** 2. Pakistani mard generally doosri shaadi karna nahi chahte. is ki kia wajah hai? Kia woh aik se zaid bivi se insaf ki salahiat nahi rakhte?
** Pakistani men generally don't want to get married twice. Why is that? Is it because he can't treat both wives equally?
because men with second marriages arenot accepted in our society. people wont see that person with the same respect.
**3. Pakistani aurtai apne shohar ki doosri bivi ko bardasht nahi karti. is lia doosri shaadi se qabal hi pahli bivi kahti hai keh doosri karni hai tu mujhe talaq do, aur doosri bhi yahi kahti hai keh pahli ko talaq do ge tu phir tum se shaadi karoo gi. kia aurto ka bila wajah aik doosre ko is tarah accept na karna sahi hai? kia mardo ka bivi ke dabao mai aakar doosri shaadi na karna sahi hai?
** **Pakistani women can't tolerate another wife of their husband. That's why before the husband gets remarried, they say that you can marry again after you give me a divorce. The other wife says that same thing. Why can't the wives accept each other without reason. Because the man comes under pressure from the wives and then doesn't get married again, is that right?
again as far as i know a man doesnot need his wife's permission to marry again. every woman wants that her husband only belongs to him by all means thats why she cant see another woman entering his husband's life. ** **4. Kahte hai keh Pakistani culture, Indian culture (hindu) se bahut ziadah mutassir hai, isi lia yaha bhi hindu ki tarah doosri shaadi ka tasawwar nahi hai. kia yeh baat sahi hai. agar nahi tu phir kia sahi hai?
They say that the Pakistani culture is heavily influenced by the Indian (hindu) culture. In the Hindu culture there is no concept of 2 wives therefore there is no concept of marrying twice in Pakistani culture. Is that correct? If not, what is correct?
i dont know much about hindu culture regarding this but i dont think so its true.
- Kia Islam mai doosri shaadi se qabal pahli bivi se ijazat leni zaroori hai? agar nahi tu kia Pakistan ka bivi se ijazat lena wala qanoon ghair islami hai. kia ghair islami qanoon ki khilaf warzi gunah hai?****
In Islam, is it required to get the permission of the wife before getting married again? If not, then the law in Pakistan that states that the husband has to get permission of the wife before getting married, is that against Islam? Is this law a sin?
****i dont think man needs his wife permission to marry again nor i think there is any such law in pakistan. polygamy is allowed in pakistani law.
**** 6. agar koi Pakistani mard aik se zaid bivi ke sath insaf karne ki salahiat rakhta ho tu kia ose doosri shaadi kar leni chahia?
If a Pakistani man is capable of treating multiple wives with justice, then should he get married again?
***yes he should marry.* ** 7. tamam bivio se insaf se kia murad hai? ham kab kahe ge ke yeh aadmi sahi hai, kio keh yeh apni tamam bivio se insaf kar raha hai. ****
What does it mean by the phrase "treating the wives with justice"? When can we say that this man is right, because he is treating his wives with justice?
i think insaaf would be to "spend time with each of them equally, buying gifts/present for all of them, fulfilling the needs of all of them" not just one they love.**
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when did i say its a claim i am making or something i surely know. i said " i think".
