a few of my friends (girls) from UK went to pakistan and got married then come back to UK alone because their husbands’ visas not ready so after 3 months waiting, they join and everything is changed, her husband said it is very bad to see like this, they are used to paksitan that girls must stay home and always accompany with male when go out.
strange, they are not happy and her husband stay and fighting everyday as why she goes to shopping alone, driving alone to buy foods, visit parents, i think it is because husbands feel they lost the control their wives,
what do you think? wives control husbands over everything because he has no job yet, no driving license yet, everything that wives already got everything which she could not got everything in paksitan, it is very opposite!!! husband jealous of wives.
hope they get on well without any problem and jealous should not be there.
why do they come to UK when he knows her wives are british asian. then complaint!
How hard is it to not go shopping alone or visit parents alone? A smart woman will let her husband take charge for some time just for the hell of it. Let the man be confident & content. We all know how men are. They like to be looked upon not down & this is not just Desi mentality.
Why do these girls marry typical Pakistani men if they can't just "act" Desi for a bit?
Most guys would like their wives to be independant and not have to babysit them everywhere they have to go.
Having said that, whats the harm in taking the hubz to the shops with you or to the parents place? Instead of fighting about it, why not just talk about and understand the actual issue... ?
