Fellas, I have to say that I am somewhat disappointed with us (collectively). I thought we were supposed to manly men, decisive and confident, yet I see that aspect wavering. I was out last night with my cousin and his buddy from Afghanistan. We were talking about the right style, attitude for men. Both my cousin and his friend are pretty manly guys, good looking (not my opinion, just an inference), and are Ma'shallah doing well in life.
While i am digging into my food, two Persian ladies roll in to the restaurant. My fellow gentlemen diners are thinking its full on, yet cousin dearest wusses out. I am not in the dating game, so the Afghani dude goes up to them dolo, chats ups and gets BOTH of their numbers.
So damn embarrassed for my cousin who was making excuses about not stepping up. The sad thing was that he was not the only one. This wasa Pakistani restaurant, so its usual mix of pregnant looking pervy uncles, obviously single and right off the boat Paki dudes, and a sprinkling of professional (and I assume college educated) guys. I am not saying that they should have harrassed the ladies - but come on, is staring while salan is dribbling down your cheek any better?
how can we know u are not making excuses as well mr-i'm-not-into-dating-but-want-other-guys-to-score-big-as-their-dating-will-earn-me-naikian...? dal mein kala nahe...sari dal hi kali hai idher...