u see, most men don't feel comfortable in that situation. i know i wouldn't. why can't women just take care of the home, why take on more responsibilities and feel stressed at the end? take it easy, let us men worry.
hey u can go on a personal development retreat all you want, nobody stopping you.. but it does not necessarily have to involve working for someone.
who said anything about working? a woman can still be independent in other ways without having to work.
From my observation....men who do everything while their wives are totally dependent on them for every little thing expect their women to do what they are told and not "talk back"....these women have no say in any decisions being made.
This is why being independent is a must for us women. This doesnt mean she has to work...it simply means she has to have a brain and know how to do things for herself....otherwise she will be left in the dark.