hey u can go on a personal development retreat all you want, nobody stopping you.. but it does not necessarily have to involve working for someone.
Personal development is an ongoing thing, you don't really go to a personal development camp and 'top up' on aspiration. Working may be a part of ones personal development. You basically asked why a women cant just be happy taking care of the home, I ask you why cant a man be happy to accept a women’s a right to work and not try stagnate and 'pigeon hole' her.