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I hope your family gets the justice they deserve. Unfortunately here in Pakistan the judicial system is quite weak and getting justice isn't easy. Try to get in contact with some good law firms for advice and most importantly if you have any contacts, any strings you can pull you must use them. The murderers will meet their fate eventually inshallah, in this world and the hereafter.
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Very sorry to hear about your loss. May Allah swt grant your father a place in Jannah i'A.
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I'm sorry about your loss. Inshallah your dad is in a much better place and Allah (swt) will reward you all for the bearing the pain his lost has caused you.
Like someone said, try to find patience. You might never fill the void your dad's absence has created in your life, but your pain will get lessened if you fill your heart with love for Allah (swt) instead of thinking about the evil people who are responsible for taking him away. Pray for your dad and remember that Allah's revenge on your behalf will be the best revenge.
If you know the people who were responsible and want to pursue punishing them in this world, then keep in mind that the Pakistani judicial system is crap and it favors people who have power and money. If you are dealing with people who can go far enough to take another human being's life than then there's no stopping them from doing that again , therefore it's important to keep your and your family's safety in mind. Its up to you whether you want to go about punishing them in this world or not, but just be very careful about dealing with those people; like rizla said, make sure you have very good legal backup as well.
My dad was killed and unfortunately when I met my fiance, he had lost his dad to a very similar situation like mine. They were both very good people and lost their lives for standing up for the truth. It's always the corrupted and bad people who stay and good people who are gotten rid of. Money and power can make people worse than animals.Even though I've had a lot of time to let this sink in and come to terms with the loss knowing that Allah swt will give us justice eventually, I still have days when I get lethargic, numb and find myself even getting out of the bed and carrying my normal daily activities because of the pain from the loss and resentment I feel towards the people who were behind it. This might sound a little exaggerated but those are also time I've felt Allah's presence more closer to me than ever, and that He is keeping a special eye out for me because He knows exactly what I'm going through.
As far as the legal battle went, we couldn't pursue it for other reasons but my fiance did in case of his dad and those people ended up getting out on bail. His family decided not to go ahead with it either because their lives were getting endangered. They couldn't rely on the judicial system and the only other option they had to get even was pretty much take things in their own hands and do something like the murderers did (how most of khandanee dushmanees are created in Pakistan).. but of course taking another human life, even if he is your dad's murderer is just not easy decision to make. Therefore, they left it upon Allah swt.
Whichever route you take Red Ruby, I wish you a lot of sabr. Inshallah may Allah make it easy on you and your family and grant your dad jannah.
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@ red ruby and Biyaa : i feel so sorry for you too :( really
may Allah give u peace amin amin amin
and may ur loved ones be in Jannat amin amin
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May Allah swt give your family sabr and your father a place in Jannat.
Ameen.
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Red ruby.... my mom was murdered about 6 yrs back... the murderers were arrested,and the things they robbed were found in their possession but police didnt make any witness when they found the stolen stuff... they remained in jail for 6 yrs n both of them had death sentences twice each but 3 months back they were set free on the basis that there is no eye witness at the time of murder n the fact that stolen stuff was found from murderers was ignored because the court doesnt value police witnesses.... the pathetic thing is that no one send us any court summon for the hearing of opposite party or informed us that they had reopen our case after 6 yrs.... so plz follow ur case even after decision is made by the court because u never know wats going on here in Pakistan there is no law....no hope....
That was really tragic and I feel so sorry for you, I pray all Zalim get thier punishment in due course.
Aameen to the dua of Faris for Biya and her family. May allah give her mom best of the best place in Jannat. Aameen
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When I lost my brother, the only thing we could look forward to were the court proceedings, but no matter what punishment they get our loved ones life will always be priceless. It wont make you feel better and it wont make the pain go away. I had a 5 year old relative who was killed in Pakistan abt 3 years ago his killing was so gruesome, when they found his body he was chopped into pieces. The man who killed him had cut his limbs while the little boy was still alive, the father died months later with the grief of his son and to this day the case continues. I know of another similar case where another relative was murdered and they tried to burn his body; they didnt find his body until 3 weeks later. They have all the evidence they need, yet the case still continues. These things can take years and it wont make you feel any better after woulds. The best thing you can do for your Dad is pray and recite the Quran, may Allah give you sabar - Ameen
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Ameen to all the dua's.
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Jazakallah khair to everyone for your duas .... and red ruby I pray to Allah that May He gives your dad place in Jannat ul firdous... and give you sabar n justice ....
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**@ Biyya: i'm very sorry to hear about your loss. May Allah BLESS ur mom's soul and grant you and your family the strength to bear this pain...aameen...inna nillaahii wa inna ilaihii raaje'oon: Allah marHooma kii maGhfirat farmaaye aur May Allah also put your mom in the highest echelons of Jannat...aameen...
...i hope the perpetrators of the crime will be tried and found guilty and they will receive the harshest punishment in the form of death [by hanging]...Allah mazloomoN kii sun le...aameen**
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Ameen.
stay strong 
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As you may be aware from my previous threads that my father was killed a few months ago and i have had an extremely difficult time in dealing with my loss.
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my sincere condolences xx
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I'm sorry about your loss. Inshallah your dad is in a much better place and Allah (swt) will reward you all for the bearing the pain his lost has caused you.
Like someone said, try to find patience. You might never fill the void your dad's absence has created in your life, but your pain will get lessened if you fill your heart with love for Allah (swt) instead of thinking about the evil people who are responsible for taking him away. Pray for your dad and remember that Allah's revenge on your behalf will be the best revenge.
If you know the people who were responsible and want to pursue punishing them in this world, then keep in mind that the Pakistani judicial system is crap and it favors people who have power and money. If you are dealing with people who can go far enough to take another human being's life than then there's no stopping them from doing that again , therefore it's important to keep your and your family's safety in mind. Its up to you whether you want to go about punishing them in this world or not, but just be very careful about dealing with those people; like rizla said, make sure you have very good legal backup as well.
My dad was killed and unfortunately when I met my fiance, he had lost his dad to a very similar situation like mine. They were both very good people and lost their lives for standing up for the truth. It's always the corrupted and bad people who stay and good people who are gotten rid of. Money and power can make people worse than animals.Even though I've had a lot of time to let this sink in and come to terms with the loss knowing that Allah swt will give us justice eventually, I still have days when I get lethargic, numb and find myself even getting out of the bed and carrying my normal daily activities because of the pain from the loss and resentment I feel towards the people who were behind it. This might sound a little exaggerated but those are also time I've felt Allah's presence more closer to me than ever, and that He is keeping a special eye out for me because He knows exactly what I'm going through.
As far as the legal battle went, we couldn't pursue it for other reasons but my fiance did in case of his dad and those people ended up getting out on bail. His family decided not to go ahead with it either because their lives were getting endangered. They couldn't rely on the judicial system and the only other option they had to get even was pretty much take things in their own hands and do something like the murderers did (how most of khandanee dushmanees are created in Pakistan).. but of course taking another human life, even if he is your dad's murderer is just not easy decision to make. Therefore, they left it upon Allah swt.
Whichever route you take Red Ruby, I wish you a lot of sabr. Inshallah may Allah make it easy on you and your family and grant your dad jannah.
Bluebells honey i feel exactly how you described. I have a daughter so i cant not get up in the morning but i just feel like im a zombie all day and there isnt a minute in the day i dont think about my dad. i cant click out of it. i really really miss him. he was my world and i feel completely lost without him. i dont know how i am going to get over this. people say it gets easier but for me i feel like day by day im finding it even harder to deal with.
so many of you on here have given examples of the system in pakistan and if thats the case then i think this journey is goign to be horrendous. even after the decisions are made in the courts theres no guarantee the result will be pursued.
i just wish this was a dream, its my worst nightmare.
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Ameen to all Duas and plz accept my condolence on loses of ur beloved. Innah Lillah Va Inna ilahi Rajieoon May Almighty Allah SWT gives them higher place in Heaven Ameen.
Be Patience and Pray to Almighty Allah SWT for Justice. No matter if the convict get punishment in this world on not. On the Day of Judgement Allah SWT surely put their all good and bad deeds in front of them and there will be no chance for the convict to survive from the hell fire. Surely, ur patience on this sad tragedy will increase the weight of good deeds and 
Allah SWT will rewards u best for ur patience.
Ameen.
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Your good wishes have really cheered me up. its like a family on this forum, everyone really pulls together
Your all so right about justice. I think the heartache lies in not knowing whats yet to come, whether they will walk free or get the punishment they deserve. Inshallah the outcome is good.
I know my father is in a better place, i dont know im being childish in thinking dad is now in jannat and looking down on me, but i genuinely feel like they are happy
Ina lilaihi wa'inna alai'hi raji'oon... may Allah swt grant your father the highest rank in jannah. Extremely sorry for your loss RR :( May the person behind it be punished in this life and the next in the manner he deserves.
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Ameen!
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So sorry... please accept my condolences for your loss. May Allah gives him best place in Jannah (Ameen)
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my condolances to you and your family Red Ruby. May Allah give sabar to you and your family in such a loss.
You need to be very brave when dealing with Pakistani Legal System. My mum's brother was killed 20 years ago, in return mum's teenager brother and old father spent 2 years in jail for no reason.
its still haunting our family. many people died and still no answer and no justice.
Money, power, fake evidence and witnesses and corrupt judges u have to face. if the other party is strong than its even tough.
My prayers are with you. Your father needs justice and I pray to Allah that you succeed.
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Inalillah wainna iliahi rajieeon
So sorry to hear that. Ameen to all prays.
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So sorry to hear about your dad Ruby, may Allah grant him jannat and you and your family strength and sabar
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