really good topic. it sort of makes me angry too, all the good guys who are well educated and from a good family goes back to pakistan and get married to their cousins or some random girl. but when it comes to their sister who is refused by many guys from good families because "she is born as raised here and might not be a very good pakistani house wife", they complain about not being able find good rishta here.
i don't think the girls who are raised here wants to marry someone from pakistan, it's always the guy.
is it really so?
many of us will go back to get marry in Pakistan. why dont ppl get marry to someone where they are living? do we really really have to back?
bringing parents in the picture is a lame excuse, cuz you can always convince the rationality.
especially the guys, who prefer to marry someone living in Pakistan. dont they know their sisters or daughters will also be refused to marry only cuz she is living abroad.
It is quite obvious that Pakistan is more Jannah, and the way it is moving towards "moderation", why people still go back and prefer to marry there?
ps. its only a concern.
Because (most, if not all) girls in Pakistan don't think they have come from 'another planet', they are down to earth, are not 'crazy & wild', dont think they are the only 'beautiful angels' on earth, are not arrogant & selfish etc etc
These are the few reasons why many men prefer getting married back home & rightly so !
First of all its up2 the ppl concerned what they wanna do...wether a girl wants a hubby from pkstan or uk, if they can get along, good for them.
we are all human n evry1 makes mistakes wether ur 4rm here or pkstan, i married 4rm back home n wer v.happy, its how u handle urself n how u luk after each other.
every marriage has ups n downs, it doesnt matter wether ur both from the same country or not.
Because (most, if not all) girls in Pakistan don't think they have come from 'another planet', they are down to earth, are not 'crazy & wild', dont think they are the only 'beautiful angels' on earth, are not arrogant & selfish etc etc
These are the few reasons why many men prefer getting married back home & rightly so !
Okayyyyyy, you're seriously delusional ..... especially about the crazy and wild comment. Go to Karachi, meet some girls from Karachi Grammar or some other prestigious school, you'll find out how wild they are. (this is coming from a girl born & raised in Pakistan, I moved here after marriage). You'll find more "emos" in Pakistan too. It all comes down to your family and how you're raised.... not 'where' you were raised. So you'll find "wild" girls everywhere..... its just easier to hide in Pakistan.... they do their wild stuff, have their share of boyfriends, then they grow up, get mature and settle down in life (and husbands never even find out).
And being more independent, confident, honest and not taking crap from anyone is not arrogance and selfishness. I have observed that girls raised abroad are just bluntly honest which is labeled as arrogance. Whats wrong with speaking the truth and knowing your own mind?
another question arises, why guys turned their eyes back to Pakistan. I guess no one will do that if they are attracted to a local lassie. What is pushing them in this direction? and why the local western desi girls failed to get attention? some parents also pushes this to bring cousins from back home as a favour for the family. etc.
in my observation, its not limited to guys, girls also ended up marrying from back home as the local asian guys only play along with local girls and dont consider them marriage material. and same with girls i have seen girls here who just want to fool around and know at the end they will pick any guy from back home and get married.
so the local breed working against each other.
but its not true for everyone. there are very fine local girls and guys live in the west of asian origin too. who also tend to marry locally and have good life
Okayyyyyy, you're seriously delusional ..... especially about the crazy and wild comment. Go to Karachi, meet some girls from Karachi Grammar or some other prestigious school, you'll find out how wild they are. (this is coming from a girl born & raised in Pakistan, I moved here after marriage). You'll find more "emos" in Pakistan too. It all comes down to your family and how you're raised.... not 'where' you were raised. So you'll find "wild" girls everywhere..... its just easier to hide in Pakistan.... they do their wild stuff, have their share of boyfriends, then they grow up, get mature and settle down in life (and husbands never even find out).
And being more independent, confident, honest and not taking crap from anyone is not arrogance and selfishness. I have observed that girls raised abroad are just bluntly honest which is labeled as arrogance. Whats wrong with speaking the truth and knowing your own mind?
i agreeee...girls in pakistan are not ALL angels....open ur eyes!!
is it really so?
many of us will go back to get marry in Pakistan. why dont ppl get marry to someone where they are living? do we really really have to back?
bringing parents in the picture is a lame excuse, cuz you can always convince the rationality.
especially the guys, who prefer to marry someone living in Pakistan. dont they know their sisters or daughters will also be refused to marry only cuz she is living abroad.
It is quite obvious that Pakistan is more Jannah, and the way it is moving towards "moderation", why people still go back and prefer to marry there?