[quote=“Reha”]
oh i m coming to life1 forum after some months now…anyway actually i want some serious help from you gs people
my dearest couisn went abroad after wedding…as u know there is a huge difference between pak and west ..though she is a educated girl.very confident and moderen…not shy,also studied in co but she feels quite uncomfortable there because of there western style..his hubby took her to office parties ,friend parties,other get togethers where girls were wearing low necks(clevage were showing) ,shorts,backless,small frocks and all revealing clothes .she said i feel very awkward . hand shakes or sit together,touch each other while talking or taking snaps together while touching each other body is very common and thet dont feel it odd or akward..ofcourse thats part of there culture…his inlaws (males and females) went to some beach for picnic and there almost every female were in bikini ..she fely shy there..his hubby took her too cruise…again same problem…dance parties are comon where u easily mingle with each other..male females dancing together etc..when ever she disscuss this issue wih me i always say to her that with time u will be fine but she was not satisfied with my words..
girls how she cope this situation..?..dont advise that she avoids those parties and all because his hubby is very social …
**i would love to hear from girls who went to west after wedding and and suffered from similar situation…/**QUOTE]
I never said it was backward. My point is simply that her husband wants to keep her with him because he doesnt feel she is backward. However, would it be better for him to think she was and leave her home so she wouldnt have to suffer by hanging out with his friends/collueagues? Would that be better for her?
The OP is making it seem as if she is suffering and complaining. Thats what it looks like. Personally, she has it good. She has a man who wants to spend time with her. Usually women complain about not doing enough things together as a couple.
u can have a good time together without going to these places,(whats the need to go to (drunk) parties :s) i dont agree with what ur saying and abviously she has to get used to her new life still.