Pair of male & female

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Re: Pair of male & female

@Sasha21

That u would get married but not be attracted to ur wife but still accept it and try to make the best of it. Allah HAS said that he won’t lay on us a burden we cannot bear, so I wonder if we’re just taking the easy way out and saying I just can’t do it (this is a general statement and not just about homosexuality but all the things we’re not supposed to do).

but would it be fair to the heterosexual wife that her husband is not actually attracted to her and doesn’t need her in that way? i dont see how someone whos gay, can really want a woman like a straight man does.
i think if someone is gay but doesn’t want to go against the religion, and doesn’t want to commit the sin of sodomy, they should stay without a partner. it’s not a sin to be gay, the act of sodomy itself is the sin.