Pains VS rewards

We read so many threads about how painful the life is for ladies (physical pains) … but I see the rewards/compensations that come with that (at least from religious stand point). I can think of 2 mostly discussed pains

Pain: Labor
Reward: She received the status of mother and holds the paradise under her feet. In worldly terms, this means that is earns the submission of her child, that is if child fails to do that then on the day of judgment he/she will be questioned.

Pain: Menstruation
Reward/Compensation: No namaz is obligated till she takes a bath. That is a good one week of break every month.

Now come to guys. I cant think of any pain other than

Pain: Circumcision:
Rewards/Compensation: Err … :hmmm:

So yes we dont suffer lots of pain maybe but we dont get compensated for none also.

Is this topic worthy of any discussion or am I just babbling!

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Pain: Getting punched in the balls by a bratty child
Reward: none, in fact the flurry of expletives takes it into negative.

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Pain: marrying a women in life and deal with her pains
Reward: Jannt ki hooreen

TLK, I am sure you REALLY dont want to discuss reward for this here on this forum. Do you? :slight_smile:

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you are just another womanhater chauvenistic… :omg:

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you need to wear a cup, man.

although in your case, I heard that you practice shukar and bhabhi practices sabar.

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Oh dont get me started… :cb:

Women have to suffer a lot…

But thats not to say that men do not suffer either…

depends on the type of pain and the circumstances…

Generally Women are gifted/cursed with thier pain and have no control over it…

Men inflict thier pains themselves directly or indirectly and often choose the painfull option rather than the easiest one…

Just think about it eh? :hehe:

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I would rather pray 50 times a day for a week then suffer through the pain of menstruation. So no, 1 week of not having to pray is hardly compensation!

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So you are saying that menstruation is not an option (for women) but circumcision is (for men)

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Indeed I do…

I believe almost all women menstruate, but not all men are circumcised…

Besides theres many more example I could give too I dont just say things without reason you know :wink:

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Men, you do have the pain of being the primary breadwinner for your family and the responsibility of distributing your income appropriately, the pain of being constantly judged by your wives and mothers [general statement], the pain of always being in perfect balance.

Your reward: garam garam roti and tlc from your children and wife. And as D6C mentioned, the hoors :naak:

Why aren’t women getting any houras :naraz:

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Thats not pain thats duty.:salute:

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Women are also given hoors, its just that our moluvis dont mention it openly.

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circumcision gives you a lot of healthy benefits such as

  1. protection against local infection in the penis.
  2. protection against cancer of the penis.
  3. sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) spread more amongst those who are not circumcised.
  4. protection of wives against cervical cancer.
  5. protection against the infections of the urethra (less likely to have this infection if you are circumcised).

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Yukky, I don’t want no hoor shoor. :emmy::nono:

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Whilst I can understand the appeal for Hoors I think it's utterly pointless in my opinion.

I would prefer an afterlife of eternal struggle and endless battle, except one in which you can never lose or win, only keep the system rolling.

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yayyy

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you said penis

tee hee

What? but we are already living such life. Why do I need an afterlife that is exactly like my real life.

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Oh believe me it is nothing like your current life, you think you got it bad round here... in my afterlife you fight endlessly against all those you could not fight with on earth.... for eternity!

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in ko dekho, khushi kaa tikhana nahi hi yeah baat sun ke

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sounds like a plot of some weird video game