Re: Pain of love
I don’t get it. If we can move on from this pain of love after 2 months or 3 months, was it really love? I was talking to one of my friends about this during one of our girls night out talking sessions and she thinks that if you can move on from love than it wasn’t really love in the first place. Even if it was real love and you lost it somehow, in order to survive and become whole again, live life again, we have to move on for ourselves. Is being able to move on or not move on a sign of real love?
OP if you can get your hands on “it’s called a breakup because it’s broken”, it’ll help, some of the parts in there are funny so it’ll get you to smile a bit. Some of the stories in there really help because the extreme ones will make you feel like yours isn’t so bad after all.
Even if there’s a chance that one of you will revert or the relationship will work or not, it doesn’t matter, take 2 months off from it and seeing him in any way, get back to yourself again and taking care of you. Get a makeover or go for a spa session with your friend and pamper yourself. It’ll take you out of this gloom and looking hot too. If it’s really meant to be it’ll happen but by thinking about it 24/7 you’re only torturing yourself. Life and time are precious. Be in the company of others, meet new people, do things you’ve never done before and always wanted to. Focus on improving yourself and making yourself a better person.
If this guy has already moved on in those two months or married already, then you’ll know that he definitely wasn’t the guy for you.
Some of those different religion, different culture marriages work but they are a lot of work so maybe this one not working out now before you went any further, saved you from intense even more painful heartbreak/divorce in the future.
Great ideas but her parents won’t let her go out and meet friends..or even go shopping on her own. So she has online for solace which is why im glad she has found GS. Think the guy has not moved on to find someone new but he is trying to help her move on by encouraging her/moving away.
Great suggestion on the reading material.