^ hmm ok, i guess? I see i wasnt the only one confused though but oh well, you got the answer you were looking for.
even i was not sure, what she meant really....
cz therez one like u mention the simple packing in the suitcases..where u just take ur stuff to in-laws and open it as needed.
And the other fancy packing, with flowers, ribbons, kapra etc... Things u show to ur relatives..
Anyway, glad she got the answer...