Have you ever had a friend who is so flippin’ insecure that she takes some wrong meaning out of all of your actions? So, I decided to stay indoors more and temporarily put a stop to social activities so I can work. Yeah…this chic thinks I’m snubbing her.
Why are people so complicated??
JeSUS. I bet you if I was driving that Lotus, she’d be kissing my arse.
I dunno. I use the word frequently when I'm angry. Really I dont get it. I see her at some event, and I havent seen her in like a few months. And mind you, she and I are supposed to be like best friends or whatever. And then this attitude. When she was husband hunting at parties and wanted some girl with her, I was there. Now when I need some space, she's taking it personally. Damn. This time its about ME! Not HER!
I swear, next time I see her, I'm gonna give it to her good.
Eh...i get into my "are u mad at me???" moments when my friends dont have time to hang out with me, but those last for maybe five seconds and I never "confront" them or anything...I really don't hold anything against em coz I rilly don't expect anything....I dunno, is that normal to feel that way sometimes? Yeah I am a sensitive person, tryin to work on it tho...
oh this kinda reminds me of something a few months back...Apparently I'd been making really stupid comments to a friend. This chik, she's friends with a LOT of guys, a very good Muslim, u know MSA-freak n all that. So she was always crackin jokes wit this 1 guy bout their wedding or if i wud take a crappy photo of em, he wud be like "hey dude we're puttin this up at our wedding" and stuff and I titled a really retarded photo of em, sitting a mile apart giving each other dirty looks "lovebirds" and she got really upset at that...she accused me of tryign to ruin her rep...which really pissed me off....then she brought up stuff from three, four months earlier that I had no recollection of. At the time I was just like "i'm so sorry soooooooo sorryyyyyy" ya know..i was seriously on the verge of tears (hell she didn't even talk, her sister spoke for her) but I just walked away as fast as I could.
So yeah, "overemotional" reminds me of this chik..hell I am emotional too...that experience made me realize what a blubbery sensitive crybaby I was being....
I had a friend like that once. She took everything so negatively as if I was doing something against her. I tried talking to her about it but her constant false accusations and insecurities were too much and kept continuing despite my repeated attempts at reassuring her and trying to get her to see that I wasn't doing anything against her ... so, I had to end the friendship and I don't regret it. Life is more peaceful without her in it.
geez that brings back memories. I had a friend who was quite dependent on me, it came to a point where she'd have expectations from me like one would have from a boyfriend or lover. It became exasperating always trying to appease her.
dude that is sooooooooooooo funny! same thing happened to me with my X best friend!!!
its so interesting & also relieving to hear that im not the only one. Also makes me feel better about ending our friendship after hearing you guys did too. for a long while i felt bad about hurting her feelings. but now im sure that it was for the best.
not to mention that life is sooooooooooooooooo much better without all THAT!