I have a cousin who has been my childhood buddy too. Our houses used to be close, so we often just walked to others house and played. He is married now, but has some issues with his wife. Me and my wife have never involved ourselves with their issues. Once my parents were visitng them he just spoke to my mom, like, see auntie , she (his wife) is arguing with me on this issue. My mom gave her some advice. But she responded very rudely, and said somehting like, merey ghar meiN mujhey naseehatein na karein etc. My parents left, later my cousin apologised and she also came and apologised. Now my parents have forgiven her and they are fine, but i just can't stop disliking her. This has affected my relationship with my cousin too, whom i like, but i just don't find myself be able to forgive her and move on.
well ur ryt v all r vry protective with r parents specially moms.... but if ur moms ok with her u shud try to atleast move on... if not then atleast saty as u were with ur cousin cuz hes ur friend from wway bck....