Re: overcoming negative feelings
Personally, I would be a bit offended too if someone adviced me on issues with my husband.. not that I disrespect them or anything but I am a private person and would not want anyone to interfere. I won't voice it though telling them off and I agree it was rude of her to talk to your mom like that. Sometimes when my mom and I would disagree on some things, she would get her friends (other aunties) to come and talk to me which pissed me off SO bad. I felt like I was being ridiculed in front of other people. But you also have to understand that maybe she was going through tough times and in her anger, said it out loud to your mom. Is she normally disrespectful? If not then everyone makes mistakes you know. And if she has apologized then that means she feels bad about what happened.. discard it as a bad moment, you shouldn't dwell on it.