Re: Overcoming heartbreak..what would you do?
Thats a good thread. Some of you might remember me from my posts few months back when i broke up few days before marriage. At that time, i got very pessimistic and yeah it was a really hard time. Hardest things were feelings of humiliation in my social circle, feeling of being betrayed and many other things. At that time i used to think that if my life will not change drastically soon then i ll definitely need psychiatric help. But things got better eventually. I started learning a new language, i excelled more in my work and i started feeling more and more better.
Now, i think i am much more confident and happier than before. Most importantly, i am again in a relationship (got nikkahfied :D) and at times i feel like this was the best decision i ever took and my heart is filled with nothing but happiness.
So moral of the story IMO is:
1: Make yourself respectable in your eyes (you think low of yourself, you can never achieve happiness)
Thanks for replying dreamMerchant and sharing your story. I read your story few months ago even though at that time I was not a member. I am very happy to hear that you got through that rough patch, that you persisted and that you didn’t give up. congrats on the nikkah. I wish you all the best and I agree completely with all 3 of your points.