people i know think im really strong, no one know i come on here to vent my fears or worries.
but i had to come here again tonight as everything stressing me out. the exams, then the wedding, and the fact that its taking place in pakistan is stressing me. today another bomb blast, im so fearful for my fiance, i know lots of ppl live there and so does his family, but ive never felt the earth move for me, as it did today when i saw the breaking news of another blast in pakistan, and the fact that hes gone there now for the weding, makes me more nervous for his safety. we are going next month too, i stayed back with my family as we have alot of things to do here first. his parents there so he took time off and went a month before us. im just soo paranoid now. i cried my eyes out today when i heard the news and had to call him. they were all at home, watching it too, and he repeatedly told me to clam down and not worry. hard not to.
on top f that i have a few bad uncles in the family who practise kala jadoo and we hate them no one talks to them. but im worried they may do something to harm us or the wedding…because my uncles have kids who they wanted me and my fiance to marry to..but we ended up liking each other , so am worried their kala jadoo may take off…i heard it works although it brings hell for the person doing it. so much tension before the wedding im getting really stressed, turning it a nuttter, and am worried for his safety as well as keepying away from bad vibes…
we are also flying out nexct month and we are scared too as well of the hallat in pak. we cant not go, we cant be that fearful of death. but its the stress of the situation there.
my friends did say why dnt we do it here instead, the wedding that is, however we cant do that now. we cant value our lives more than the ones over there, death can not be prevented anyway.
just too much on my plate, lots of exams, lots of wedding stress, plus all this crap…:{
you have major anxiety disorder. you need ot calm down. those jealous relativse won<t be able to do a thing. read the 4 quls before gogin to sleep every night. and buy a necklace wiht aytul kursi on it and wear it beofre you travel. read extra nufl with isha.
I don't know whether this thought will be comforting or more troublesome for you. But my mom always says that you will die when you are destined by Allah to die......not a second before....not a second later. Tragedies and horrible accidents are not only confined to Pakistan..........they happen everywhere. There are people who can die in awful ways living in the more safer countries in the world. And there are people who can live long lives and die in more peaceful ways in the most unstable of countries.
I understand that you have a lot on your plate right now, but try focusing on the positive. There are people who are living their lives day in and day out in Pakistan. Perhaps the area where your husband's family lives in Pakistan is more secure. If you feel that nervous......try talking to your husband about your fears. Maybe he can suggest a compromise regarding the living arrangements.
As far as black magic and the evil eye is concerned..........understand that Allah is more powerful than all of these sinister schemes and no harm will come to you unless Allah wills it. And as the saying goes, "prevention is better than the cure." There are many basic/simple recommendations for warding off the evil eye and black magic. For example......every day recite the Ayatul Kursi and 3 Qul.......and the last two verses of Surah Baqarah are helpful.
Besides...........why would your evil uncles wait for you to actually come to Pakistan to harm you???????????????? If they wanted to hurt you..........then could use their black magic against you while you're sitting all the way in England. Also......if your uncles were planning to prevent your rishta to your cousin.................they FAILED. You're getting married to him. Because in the end.......regardless of all the evil planning one does.........Allah decides what will happen. So have faith in this thought, recite your surahs, pray for the best, and focus on the positive. Plus........reading your post........I've noticed that you're feelings for your cousin are becoming stronger. And that's a good thing! ;)
hey guys, thanks yeh RV your right, my feelings are stronger now. i guess absense makes the heart grow fonder and all..
so in an earlier thread i once said i didnt know namaz, well i am going to learning it now and am doing so. i have the aytal kursi with me. can someone tell me where to get a necklace, i used to have one years ago i got it from pakistan, can i get one here in london. also what are the 3 qul...:{
thanks, maybe i do have an anxiety issue, but i thin the stress of wedding is just normal, most people stress about that right...
You are right you are extremely stressed out. You need to break this cycle of worries immediately.
Do what ever it takes, go out with friends(who are not stressed out because of exams.)
Go for a long walk. Get some fresh air in your system.
And about jaadoo; remember one thing, its Allah who runs the show!!!! He is still the Boss.
Stop worrying now, And open some typical thread so we can laugh at them.
Now come on!!
aww bless, yeh i know .very stressed. what can i do.....i did try praying yesterda, although i did feel abit silly...i mean i was just talking to god, not namaz....and i did feel abit out of touch with it all. i did try reading aytul qursi, does anyone the benefits of aytul -qursi...
these are the last three surahs in the Quran and are known to be very powerful to protect again jadoo (witchcraft), nazar…and when someone is fearful of something.
, inshallah everything will be fine, all you can do is pray!
