I think this is a classic case of "jab sar pe pare ga toh pata chalay ga"
Everyone who is acting holier than thou abt abortion and ranting on and on abt dont do the crime if you cant do the time, well the deal is the crimes been done. Now what?
I dont have any concrete opinions on this, cos I know that people when put in a situation themselves have a different viewpoint and when discussing it have another one.
I just want to say that either way, we all need to respect peoples choices and keep in mind that we dont know the reasons behind their actions as well as they do.
You pay for it that's what happens. As someone mentioned that would be a bigger lesson for many others to follow as well. The original poster didn't ask us to judge anyone but asked us what would we do in such a position.