^ so well said.
SGC you said so many right things.
I just have to point out just because it was an unplanned or unwanted child to begin with doesn't means there won't be any love available for him/her in the real world & there are desi parents who do support their daughters. Yeah they might be really upset at her & the shame she has caused to them in front of others. Yeah people will talk like crazy but then there are also people that understand what happened. It has a lot to do with how the girl reacts to the situation. If she repents & is is truly sorry for what happened Allah will make paths for her & the baby to live happily in this world.
& who said a girl like that will have to drop out of school. Yes life will be tough but if not with the baby but when after the baby is born she can go to school & still work towards her future & provide for her self & the baby.
Also where does it say in Islam that you can't get married to a person who was illegitimate to begin with.
Only if we bother to educate ourselves.