Other people's choices

[NyFella]

Re: Other people’s choices

@Sehrysh

No, it’s not quite so bad. Again, don’t want to get into the specifics of the issue (sorry for being so cryptic).

Let’s use the example of a cousin drinking. I know it’s haraam and they know it’s haraam, but they continue to make it part of their lifestyle. If I continue to socialize with them and let’s say they order a drink while we’re out at dinner with the kids, am I sanctioning their choices and lifestyle and providing a bad example for the kids?

P.S. They already know I don’t agree with their choices - I’ve been vocal about that. ** But it’s the continued socializing and what that means in terms of supporting them and setting an example for the rest of the family.**

So its not so bad.

You already let them know your decision and where you stand.

Maybe a little time away and being distant for certain time. They will come to understand where you stand.