Re: other people giving ur child sweet food?
WOW…Hatred for Nadz? ROFL Errr calm down, this is just an internet forum and hatred is too strong of an emotion to be felt for a random person in cyber world.
You do realize that information about constipation was added later? If thats the case than in her laws are completely wrong, but if just a case of confused ABCD mothers feeling overly suspicious and loathing anyone who comes a foot close to their babies than they’re just sad bunch of losers. It just hurts their ego to see someone else taking a so called control over their child. Read her OP again, and you can easily get the impression she’s just having another one of her I can’t stand my SIL/MIL fit, which is sadly often the case of some idiotic desi yet I’m not desi women in the name of ‘modern’ parenting. Yes in twenty/thirty years time all these ‘oh we hate desi aunts’ will moan when their children will say that your style of parenting is backward, unsympathetic and oh so dangerous, just like our grandparents style of parenting was considered backward in our mothers time. Can anyone here gurantee that they would never ever repeat the age old saying ‘oh beta thats how I used to do it when you were young’ when your children become parents, would you like being looked down and having people in up in arms over this?
Yes this whole melodramatic dogma about my child my child is my child is nauseating, the child is at the end of the day is also a part of the family, you are living in a fools world if you think you can just show middle finger to the dada daddi, nana nani, puhpo, khala mamoo. They have every right to contribute to your child’s development and have their little moments.
Having said that, nadz’ in laws are at completely wrong end here, but this just my issue with confused abd self hating desis who just like a to make a big deal out of everything.