Orphans

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He doesn't give a damn lift to us. He only doest thngs for dikhawa if friends are around and saying lies about us and mom.

Yes I planned to visit him Insha Allah. At least it will give me lots of happiness by seeing him before he dies.

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As I know parents ki taraf pyar ki nazar say daikhna bhi sawaab hai.

Thanks for dua bonny (j/k).

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My father passed away when i was only 11. He worked for Wapda in pakistan as an engineer, one day he was on-site (working on a co-workers assignment, doing a favor type of a thing), showing an employee how to measure etc...and well on site of course the wattage of electricity was 100 times more thn what we have at home...skipping some details here...he got electric shocked from the wires running overhead.
96% of his body was burned...he lived for a week...which the dr. said was a miracle.

now how did i handle this??? well i was only 11 and i didn't understand why were ppl crying so much, i mean i cried too but in my head i was think "now there is one less person to feed," but i later realize that the person who was feeding all of us was gone :(

thanks to my nani and mamu we moved to US within two years and have been here since thn.

it has been difficult for us, but we have handled it fine i think.

I remember when a friends nana passed away and her mom kept saying i have no parents now...that thought scares me the most.

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:hug:
I know what you mean, my mom passed away when I was 5.

you are very brave girl, keep kicking!!!

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Lots of hugs Rabi dear. Thats so sad. Allah aap kay Walid kay aur baqi tamaam musalmanon kay qabr ko jannat ka hissa bana day ameen.

Allah aap sub ki help karay aur asaniaan paida karay ameen.

Don't forget to ask me for any help if you need any. I would love to help you and others you need help.

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Masha Allah you have got gr8 nani and mamu.

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^ now rabia,
love your brothers cuz they are going to mamus to your kids.

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Ameen!

Thank you, ll do :)

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PM ... thanks for the earlier comment and sorry to hear abt ur mom, u keep punching...
but of course i want to kick u for the above comment... i love my brothers, i actually bug Sunny by calling him sunny mamu :p

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Well,In all my life i saw my father only once when i was 5.Then he never came back.

"Walk a little slower daddy..."I read this poem on a wall(if someone has read it?).And i will love to add n will feel proud to say my mom is my daddy.
LOOOOOOOOOOOOVE you mommy.

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Walk a little slower, Daddy,
Said a little child so small.
I'm following in your footsteps
And I don't want to fall.

Sometimes your steps are very fast,
Sometimes they are hard to see;
So, walk a little slower, Daddy,
For you are leading me.

Someday when I'm all grown up,
You're what I want to be;
Then I will have a little child
Who'll want to follow me.

And I would want to lead just right,
And know that I was true;
So walk a little slower, Daddy,
For I must follow you

This one.I have spent less almost NO time with him,hardly a month,So honestly i donot know/cannot understand what happens or you feel when you have a dad.

I for sure cannot live without my mom:)

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I am in tears ... this subject is just so emotional ...

I had the worst dream of my life two days back, I saw that my mom passed away ( god forbid ) and the exact feeling how much i was missing her etc .. went through my heart and woke me up ... and the next thing i was on the prayer mat praying for her long life ...

Parents are the biggest blessing of Allah ... one feels so protected no matter what age they are .. Mirch put it so beautifully in words in his post ...

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Lots of hugs sameen dear.

Koi baat naheen jis ka koi naheen uska to Allah hai yaro. At least you have mom as a dad. Masha Allah Allah unka saya dair tuk qaim rakhaay aap payameen.

I also use to call my mom you are both mom and dad for us.

I use to tease her you could marry and give us a brand new father and chacha and phoophi. She use to get mad at me full time like "pagalon ki tarha pagal wali baat karta hai".

When I was too you a lady use to teach me quran at home my parents ask her to teach as they want to help her as that was her only income she had only 1 sone who was my friend oh my Allah I can't explain the sadness on his face and heard that his father left and never come back may be before his birth or after I forgot.

We wer so wealthy and he use to look at our stuffs like hasrat. So I use to lend him for a while to make him happy.

Later we moved from that place and heard he went to foreign and or some where and earning good money and bought a home and ask his mom to stay home stop earning and she is living like chodhrani. This made me happy she was my teaching I don't thing she would be alive.

I don't kno what my friends name was but we all use to call Mr.

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Yes..But its life.Jab Allah ek raasta baan karta hai to dosra zaroor kholta hai.

If no dad so what ?who cares:D
Allah ne itni achi mom to di hai.

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Exactly Alhamdolillah.

Some ppl live with dad but feels that dad is present for a few hours but have to connection with his own kids. Never taught a single thing. Never loved them like dad.

Looks like strangers under one roof. That would be more pain for kids and lady.

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I hate this topic,because i feel sad and deprived.

Let's just talk about bumping into stars:D
Okay tell me have you ever bumped into a luminary?

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Yeah I know.

Luminary? I don't know that much english bus chal chalo tuk ata hai so explain first to let me open my big mouth.

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Same here..hehe:D

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lol aisay hi soch main dal dia. lol

what does the word "chunchunaanaa" [چںچنانا] MEAN?
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^ cute :)