For the past few days, a question comes into my mind, but i cant find any definite answer to that. Its a controversial issue, ie. about Oral Sex. When we try to study about it in the light of Islam, the Maalikis believe that its allowed, where as the other sects believe that it isnt allowed because of the fluids discharged during the sex, since they believe that the fluids are najis/dirty/impure. What does Islam say about this issue, and what are the views of the guppies on this issue?
This topic pops up often. Here’s a link to a previous thread.
http://www.gupistan.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=75917&highlight=*oral*
Islam never allow one to have sex not even with ur wife.. u can’t have sex with her u do what u do just for the babby 
as for oral sex i think it is fun and safer… but against Isalm so u know…
thanks Fret for the link...i had missed it...
you missed it man,
go and get a refreshal Islamic course :k:
idiot…
they are talking about Islam not Catholicism 
We have to keep in mind that not everyone is well informed about all religions. Catholicism itself is a different sect of Chrisitanity. Both Islam and Christianity preach equal but somewhat differing views.
What it comes down to is individual preference whether to follow religion or not. What is forbidden in any religion is for a reason, its up to us to follow it. Most people come here and ask such questions but how many follow it?
Now if you want to further go along this topic, try going with your own morals and values rather than use other religions as a backbone and see what conclusion you come to.
Allowed but not preferred...
Allah knows best...
.....since they believe that the fluids are najis/dirty/impure...
If the fluids are "najis/dirty/impure," then why are we born out of it? Does it make the us humans "najis/dirty/impure"?
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*Originally posted by ghalib: *
.....since they believe that the fluids are najis/dirty/impure...
If the fluids are "najis/dirty/impure," then why are we born out of it? Does it make the us humans "najis/dirty/impure"?
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Isn't this so humblimg that Ashfrafal Mukhlooq (The best of creatures) is created from something that is najis. This goes to tell you what we humans really are in the big picture of things.
When will people learn not to break down the ultimate pleasure into different categories. Sex is sex is sex. There are many ways to achieve that pleasure, peacocks rub their necks together, fish swallow (fish has no ass or vagina), ants kiss, mosquitoes bug their mates, so there are many ways to satisfy one’s natural needs. Whatever you find appealing and satisfying, do it. If holding hands is a sexual expression to you, do that, but please don’t break this beautiful concept into different pieces. Tomorrow you will come up with Christian sex and Islamic sex and Punjabi sex.
I recieved a PM from a guppie who wishes to remain anonymous and has posed a question to all participants:
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In your opinion, what is oral sex?
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*Originally posted by NYAhmadi: *
When will people learn not to break down the ultimate pleasure into different categories. Sex is sex is sex. There are many ways to achieve that pleasure, peacocks rub their necks together, fish swallow (fish has no ass or vagina), ants kiss, mosquitoes bug their mates, so there are many ways to satisfy one’s natural needs. Whatever you find appealing and satisfying, do it. If holding hands is a sexual expression to you, do that, but please don’t break this beautiful concept into different pieces. Tomorrow you will come up with Christian sex and Islamic sex and Punjabi sex.
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Sex is sex is sex...Depends on where your roots are...My roots have defined a strict guideline as to with whom I am supposed to have it with...Promiscuity is a strict nono in my religion which is Islam...
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*Originally posted by CocoNut: *
I recieved a PM from a guppie who wishes to remain anonymous and has posed a question to all participants:
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In your opinion, what is oral sex?
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Having Sex Verbally :D
What about mutual masturbation? Is that allowed? Or anal sex?
dont try to explain religious matters if u are not sure about them or have little knowledge…
as someone rightly said “A LITTLE KNOWLEDGE IS DANGEROUS”
chill
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*Originally posted by Imdad Ali: *
What about mutual masturbation? Is that allowed? Or anal sex?
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mutual masturbation after marriage is allowed.... anal is not
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*Originally posted by Gamma Dilation: *
mutual masturbation after marriage is allowed.... anal is not
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Is it mutually inclusive or mutually exclusive?. To each his/her own or to each other's?
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*Originally posted by Gamma Dilation: *
mutual masturbation after marriage is allowed.... anal is not
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Thank you brother Gamma. Now I know. I can die a happy man.