Who is to decide what is a "proper" time? There's no set rule. The idea of having a "proper" time becomes troublesome for couples who have fertility issues or other problems that are getting in the way of having children.
Ultimately, you will have children......when Allah wills you to have children. In-laws' nagging is not going to make anyone have a baby any quicker. Having a baby....and raising one is a huge responsibility and the in-laws are **not **the ones who are going to have to deal with it. That responsibility will be the couple's. Get to know yourself.....get to know your spouse.....develop a good relationship with your spouse. You'll have a child when you're meant to.
RV, if i give u my inlaws number AND my parents number, will u plz call them and tell them this for me????? :AID: my thoughts exactly...
i feel that no one can ever know what goes on between a couple and where they truly stand....so they cant make judgements like, ''ok, its been this long so its time for u to settle down'' or etc etc