Opposit Attracts!

Do you fall for bad boys?

suppose you have fallen in love…you know that boy is not good for you but you can’t resist his charm…what would you do?
why are good girls attracted to bad boys?
is this some type of psychology?

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yes i do fall for bad boys and I always end up being incredably hurt as a result

Nice guys are the way forward!

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This has always been my fear but thanks to Allah he has made me a little bit too strong for any such kinds of temptations :biggthumb: mA.

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As to why? Well's its just natural. Interesting, out of ordinary things/people always get attracted to.

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Not really.

I'm attracted to guys who are overall good/considerate.....but I think it makes things interesting to have (to an extent) a spontaneous/mysterious (hard to explain) side to their personality as well. Goody-two shoes personalities can be boring.

As for why some women get attracted to "bad boys"........well, I think confidence is a quality that both genders are drawn to. And then there's the unpredictability (to an extent).....which tends to capture people's curiosity and makes life more interesting....getting away from the routine. A bit of thrill/risk is exciting. And then I think that since women tend to be nurturers......maybe another possible reason for the attraction is the subconscious desire to tame the bad boy.

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Nope I've never been one to go for 'the bad boy' in real life. I stay miles away from the sort. When it comes to fictional characters on the otherhand...

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Goody two shoes are boring but then when it comes to marriage, most guys and girls (or their parents) want a goody two shoe.

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I, however, am attracted to the 'bad' boy but not someone who goes around thinking he owns this world. Someone who has seen the read bad side of the world and that pushes him into making effort to be a good human being..la la la la-land

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Opposite attracts but similar sticks.