hmm. I know the similiar story..but this time it was girl’s father who called the guy’s father and swore and used very abusive language to this guy (When talking to his father). What we say to that?. The story goes something like this:
Guy liked this girl and they both have very good understanding. The guy told his father and his father rang up and talked to her father. First conversation went rude because, the girl’s father was like…" he needs to do more in terms of education". Though, guy had a good job..and just finished his bach. and was planning to study part time doing masters. And he wanted to get married to her asap to avoid “haram relationship”..beside caring about her.
Then few months later, i guess girl’s father and mother was trying to hook a girl with some “engineer” dude but she refused and of course therefore mayhem at her house. This trigged the girl’s father to called guy’s father and used VERY abusive language to a guy..and told his father that..he should cut ties with her and not talk to my daughter. etc. And this whole time guy’s father was calm..and trying to tell her father that… “vo apni beti ko samjhaen and don’t come to me if you can’t control your daugher”. The guy’s father was pissed as well but he acted maturely and didn’t use any abusive language toward the girl OR even her father.
And now the situation is same, the girl and guy are talking regularly and still wants to get married but the guy is being extremely understanding and telling her that..if her father isn’t agreed to this…why are we going with this? To this, girl gets emotional and cry and cry..and of course..this guy tells her that..insha’allah whatever Allah wills it will happen..but we should remain patient and of course hoping her parents will come around.
Guy’s father is calm and tells his son to be patient and try finishing his masters in meanwhile.
Anyway sorry about that..thread starter. This is the story of my bestfriend and my yar!! I hope everything works out for both of them.
Now tell me what should this couple do?