Opening ex file

samraali22 · July 21, 2008, 8:45pm

I know it may be really hurtful to you. One thing take people’s stories with a grain of salt. Some people do chalakiyaan just to mess with your head.
Anyway what is it that your gut instinct say to you? DO you believe in your husband’s story or their’s. That being said , these days are the building blocks in your relationship.
I would suggest that you have a heart to heart talk with your husband…when all of this cools down that is. Make sure the timing is when he is on the same wavelength. Let him know how this makes you feel. Do not be in an accusatory tone..otherwise he will be defensive and the point will be lost.

I know it can be really hard to be vulnerable in front of someone but he is your husband and you guys have vowed to spend the rest of your life together.
Make sure he understands your point and ask him for suggestions of how to deal with the situation instead of maybe telling him. Let him take the lead of making you feel safe in the relationship. I would say do not treat the symptoms but the cause, because if not this then some other thing will creep its way into your heart to make you feel like this again
Goodluck!

yeah ur right:hugz: i cant really think straight rite now