ok…i hv a problem & since cafe’ is my home away from home…i thought maybe cafeities could help me with this… i was chatting with one of the guppies …& well …he told me tht his dad passed away like a few yrs back…when he told me tht i really had tears in my eyes …but then after i talked to him i went to sleep… uskey baad whenever i remember wht he told me…a shiver passes through me…& i get this very weird emptiness sort of a feeling inside of mee… tht is a very horrible feeling…& he told me this 4 days back…4 days with tht feeling coming to me again & again is toooo horrible …if anyone here can help me get rid of tht feeling…i would be thankful…
i hope tht particular guppy does not read this post & well if u r reading…i hope aap mujhsey naraaz na hoo jaain…magar mainey aapka naam naheen bataayaa… i wouldnt be posting this if i really would not need help with this…
marna sab ko hai :) app kay dil mai serf aik dur hai . . . aik andheeka dar :) wesay namaz pharna shoro kar day tu yakeen karay phir koie pareshani nahi rahay ge :) sab muskilo ka serf aik he simple haal hai . . woh hai NAMAZ :) bus pharna shoro karay phir dekhay app ko khud he farak mahsos ho ga :)INSHALLAH :)
hm aisa hota hey sumtimes when u hear abt an incident and in ur subconscious u visualize ur ownself in that very situation and there is kinda heart struck feeling and u r unable to overcum with all ur efforts,so al u should do is just believe k everyone has to leave this world one day or the other.,i mean though u believe it yet i mean to say that instead of fearing this fact just pray for the well being and safety for ur family and also the courage to face anything boldly:)
uskey baad whenever i remember wht he told me....a shiver passes through me....& i get this very weird emptiness sort of a feeling inside of mee......tht is a very horrible feeling......& he told me this 4 days back......4 days with tht feeling coming to me again & again is toooo horrible ........if anyone here can help me get rid of tht feeling.....i would be thankful...........
You are making me sad.
I went throug the pain of losing loved one.
Wasn't able to sleep.
I did this went to mall bought a cd recoding of "sura yasin" with translation.
In that Allah tells us how life is a cycle we go through.
I use to go to sleep listing to that.
Nothing else easid my pain but Allah's word.
Loseing a loved one is really hard, i just lost my grandma in Jan, but may God give you peace and be with you always and help you forget about this, here is a big hug from me:hugz:
i shouldn't have opened this thread.......this is making matters worse for me........after a few ppl here told abt their lost loved ones........... my feeling is becoming worse...........
sorry, didn't mean to make you feel worse, just pray about your feelings and have faith that they will get better, it takes some time, but remember that it is ok to hurt and grieve that is human nature, i will pray for you too. God Bless and comfort you
Read Ayat ul Kursi and 4 kuls when going to bed and if bad thoughts come to your mind, keep reading them till you fall a sleep.
My mamoo passed away few months back and I had and have a really hard time sleeping at night so I started reading ayat ul kursi and 4 kuls whenever I have bad thoughts going through my mind or I am unable to sleep.
Here are my suggestions
1) Don't stay alone , keep talking to someone when you are free, don't sit quite
2) koi dost ke ghar jao jahan aap ko bahut acha time pass hota hi, aur ye topic yaad hi nahi ayye
3) pehle cafe me ye thread band karo kyun ki har waqt jab aap cafe aathe hi aap ko e thread dekh ke wohi yaad aa jate hi
recite surah yaseen....and then make dua...inshaalah u will feel peaceful....my naani amee always tells me this and whenever i m sad or scared or depressed i do this and it really provides "sukoon".....reciting surah yaseen every morning will inshaalah make your day a good and peaceful one
