only married 2 months and feel depressed

Re: only married 2 months and feel depressed

Look folks, the issue here seems not of what is being communicated but how.
Hounding someone does jack, and the issue is on her husband’s side.
statements like …when wil you do it, when you die?.. are irrespinsible, hurtful and idiotic.

Getting on her case about what is islamic and all is not what she is asking for.

Sara, I would advise you to try and bring some calm in this discussion. have an oppen discussion, where you focus that you are evaluating, and will do it when you feel you can do it. dont get into a telling him off slope. That will create a bigger mess.

btw does he have a fist length beard? :wink:
also are you in UK now or in Pakistan?

to other ladies reading-- when evaluating a potential husband, whether arranged or not, you have to be very clear on lifestyle and major things, let there be no ambiguity. if there are timelines needed they need to be stated.